Today
we are so lucky to have a guest post from my good friend Shawn
McGormley. I have known Shawn for about six years, since we were
roommates during our primary training. Shawn is AMI Montessori
trained for both Primary and Elementary, and makes beautiful
materials for both groups which she sells here.
This is
her response to everyone who's ever called her daughter "smart"
when they really mean that she is knowledgeable. Enjoy:
Lately
Dakota has started using the terms male and female with her Schleich
animals (which happen to be anatomically correct). Most of the time
it is with the females. We have read books to her about baby animals
where she sees the babies feed from the mother. The main book was a
board book aimed at toddlers. When there is an obvious difference in
an animal I might mention that it is a female or male. I have just
given her this word instead of "girl cow" or "mommy
cow." She knows that female means girl and sometimes mommy.
I
don't believe that knowing this word (or other "advanced"
words) means that she is smart. Young children are sponges. They want
to know the names of things. If I only had a nickle for every time
that Dakota has asked me "What's that?" in the last two
months! She often asks about things that she already knows. I think
that she is checking to see if there is a more specific name that she
hasn't been taught yet. She knows it is a dog, but she doesn't know
that it is a German shepherd.
Dakota
may or may not be smart, but knowing what a female or a chimpanzee or
a lemur is at 2 1/2 does not mean that she is smart.
